How to Pray in Times of Concern | Matthew 6:5-15

Matthew 6:5-15 Times of turmoil and concern often compels us to pray. But how is it that we should pray?

Prayer… 

5“And when you pray..., 

CONTEXT: Matthew 6:1 

1“Be careful not to practice your righteousness in front of others to be seen by them. If you do, you will have no reward from your Father in heaven.

More on this specific text soon - gracious seeing, generous giving - as I have been given, promoting and protecting dignity of others, truly being aligned with and attuned to God, while being others-centered

 

What is that righteousness? Paul explains it in Corinthians when he says that Jesus is our righteousness. That being said then, is that righteousness is everything we are meant to be, and created to be, in Christ Jesus. In other words, our righteousness, is our likeness to Jesus – what he said how he said it, what he did and how we did it, we are created in Christ Jesus to be like Christ Jesus and our righteousness is his righteousness and his righteousness is the incredible kindness goodness humility gentleness and grace with which he lived – and that by mercy.

And that is how we are to be and act.

An act of righteousness is an act of grace in response to grace - it is a humble recognition of having been made righteous through no act of my own - that righteousness is grace, the gift of grace, by grace

NOW THE REST:

Do not be like the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full. 6But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you. 7And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words. 8Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him.

9“This, then, is how you should pray:

“ ‘Our Father in heaven,

hallowed be your name,

10your kingdom come,

your will be done,

on earth as it is in heaven.

11Give us today our daily bread.

12And forgive us our debts,

as we also have forgiven our debtors.

13And lead us not into temptation, a

but deliver us from the evil one. b

14For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.

And how did Jesus pray?

  • Mark 1:35 very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house, went off to a solitary place, where he prayed

  • Mark 6:46-48 and when he had sent them away, he departed to the mountain to pray

  • Matt 14:13, 23 Jesus withdrew… privately to a solitary place; He went up on the mountain by Himself to pray.  When evening came, He was there alone.

  • Luke 4:42  At daybreak, Jesus went out to a solitary place…

  • Luke 5:16 ...He frequently withdrew to the wilderness to pray

  • Hebrews 5:7-9 7During the days of Jesus’ life on earth, he offered up prayers and petitions with fervent cries and tears to the one who could save him from death, and he was heard because of his reverent submission. 8Son though he was, he learned obedience from what he suffered 9and, once made perfect, he became the source of eternal salvation for all who obey him

As for us… 

  • Psalm 5:2-3  attend to my words, hear my cry, consider my/our suffering, Hear my cry for help, My King and my God, for to you I pray.  you will hear in the morning, Lord, in the morning I will look up and direct my prayers to you - I lay my requests before you and wait expectantly. 


When we act, how are we to act?  “Who” are we to act (like)? Like Jesus!  Being imitators of God as dearly loved children - because that is what we are! (Matt 5:48; Luke 6:36; John 1:12; Rom 8:16; Eph 1:5; 5:1; Phil 2:15; James 1:18; 1Pet 1:23; 1John 3:1-3)

So...

What is an act of righteousness?  It is the living out of Jesus’ character - His righteousness and goodness - that He has made us to be.  In other words, it is living out our newly born and created nature - the nature of Jesus in us by the power of the Holy Spirit.  Our actual and real freedom in Christ!  (John 1:12-13; 3:3,5,16; 2Cor 5:17; Gal 6:16; Eph 2:8-10; then: Rom 1:17; 3:21; 1Cor 1:30; 2Cor 5:21; Gal 5:1,5, 13-14, 16, 22-25; 2Peter 1:1-5)

  • Humbly and modestly: Humble ourselves

  • Go to the Father: Seek God’s face

  • Heartfelt and simple: Pray to Him

    • Petition

    • Pray

    • Intercede 

    • Be grateful 

  • Repentant: Turn from our own sinful ways, not only by stopping but returning to our Father turning toward Him and His way and ways

    • Open to hear

    • Ready to stop

    • Quick to confess

    • Willing to change

    • Raring to go 


And, God will hear and respond… (2Chron 7; Jer 29; Isa 58; Ps 51; Ps 1)

When?  When will God act?  When we act: approach Him with a humble heart, seeking His face, express to Him our hearts, and turn back toward Him - He will respond according to His will and we will be glad. 


We are free!  But… Galatians 5:13-25

Life by the Spirit

13You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh a ; rather, serve one another humbly in love. 14For the entire law is fulfilled in keeping this one command: “Love your neighbor as yourself.” b 15If you bite and devour each other, watch out or you will be destroyed by each other.

16So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. 17For the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh. They are in conflict with each other, so that you are not to do whatever c you want. 18But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law.

19The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; 20idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions 21and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.

22But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. 24Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. 25Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit. 26Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying each other.

Galatians 5:13-25

So, here is where our dominion lies…  as a believer, a disciple of Jesus, I am free to choose, it is my choice.  With no consequence for my salvation.  With thath my being adopted, I have been set free, and with freedom, I have been given choice.  Here are some of the choices we get to make - to love or not love; to love AS Jesus loved me, or to love as I prefer; to love sincerely, or merely put up with and go through the motions, or, to not love at all. 

So, where’s the “but” lie? Though my salvation (eternal life, based on having placed my faith in Jesus’ person, life, and work - John 3:16) be secure in God’s love (Rom 8:31-39; 2Tim 2:13) everything else I am and do, and my effectiveness in being loved and loving, hinges on my not taking for granted this glorious truth, but in fact, by resting in it (Heb 4:9-16), by making every effort to strive with God’s Spirit, I can and will effectively bear the fruits of that Spirit that is in me (Gal 5:22-23), bringing Him honor and joy, while bringing the love of God effectively into the lives of those with whom our world intersects. 

The “but”?  That if I choose, with my choice to choose, to indulge the flesh, though my life not be lost, the purpose and the effectiveness of my life (here on earth) may very well be. 

So, what then shall I choose? Have I been, and am I not still, loved?  Then, perhaps, I might choose to love in return… John 14:15-23; 15:9-10; 1John 4:18-19; 5:3; 2John 1:6 and to love in return means to trust and obey.

Obedience: the mark of a trusting faith expressed in love by a humble heart grateful for being loved so well… fueled this fuels by a desire to please, to bring honor, joy, and blessing to the One who loves.


It is this love in response to being loved that governs my choices - that I might be effective in that love - receiving and giving

1John 4:7-21

God’s Love and Ours

7Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. 8Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. 9This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. 10This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. 11Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. 12No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.

13This is how we know that we live in him and he in us: He has given us of his Spirit. 14And we have seen and testify that the Father has sent his Son to be the Savior of the world. 15If anyone acknowledges that Jesus is the Son of God, God lives in them and they in God. 16And so we know and rely on the love God has for us.

God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them. 17This is how love is made complete among us so that we will have confidence on the day of judgment: In this world we are like Jesus. 18There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.

19We love because he first loved us. 20Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar. For whoever does not love their brother and sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom they have not seen. 21And he has given us this command: Anyone who loves God must also love their brother and sister.


The right and responsibility to choose, the enablement to choose, the power to choose, is ours.  Will we, will I tap into that power and walk in with that power, what will I choose?  

This is the freedom of choice, the freedom of the children of God to be righteous, holy, and good…

Some of those real-life , God granted choices being… yes, I am accepted, but will my choices be acceptable, pleasing, honoring, loving - of God, self, and others as self? (Rom 6:13; 12:1; 15:16; 1Cor 6:20; 1Peter 2:5)

  • What I will eat and drink - only bread, as to fill my belly, or with my bread, that I might fill my mind and heart with The bread of life – the word of God - will I choose what I want or what God desires; will I choose what will honor God and what will bless and edify others - or - myself? 

    • “He humbled you, and in your hunger, He gave you manna to eat, which neither you nor your fathers had known, so that you might understand that man does not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of the LORD.”  (Luke 4:4 (Deut 8:3); Ephesians 5:26; Heb 6:7; Ex 17:6; Rom 14; 1Cor 10:3-4; 12:7,18,25; 13; 14:26; Eph 4:7,12; Phil 2:3-8)

  • What I will wear - will I choose tattered and stained clothes (of sin) or a robe of righteousness and holiness? (Jude 1:23; Rev 3:4; Isa 61:10; Colossians 3; le 19:2; 1Pet 1:15-16)

    • 10I delight greatly in the Lord; my soul rejoices in my God.  For he has clothed me with garments of salvation and arrayed me in a robe of his righteousness, as a bridegroom adorns his head like a priest, and as a bride adorns herself with her jewels.” Isa 61:10

    • I know your deeds; you have a reputation of being alive, but you are dead… 2Wake up! Strengthen what remains and is about to die, for I have found your deeds unfinished in the sight of my God… But if you do not wake up, I will come like a thief, and you will not know at what time I will come to you.  4Yet you have a few people in Sardis who have not soiled their clothes. They will walk with me, dressed in white, for they are worthy.”  Rev 3:1-4

    • 3Your beauty should not come from outward adornments, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. 4Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight… submitting themselves…”  ultimately to God’s will and purposes  1Peter 3:3-5

  • How I will speak about and to others will I choose unwholesome and disparaging, empty and idle, or edifying and encouraging, loving and gracious (Eph 4; Col 4:6; Rom 14:9; 15:2)

    • “The good man brings good things out of his good store of treasure, and the evil man brings evil things out of his evil store of treasure.  But I tell you that everyone will have to give account on the day of judgment for every empty word they have spoken.” Matt 12:35-37

    • 29Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” Eph 4:29

    • “Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.”  Col 4:6

  • How I will treat others - will I choose the way of the world “don’t do to anyone what you would not have them do to you or do unto others…” OR or the way of Jesus and the kingdom “Do to others AS…”?  Luke 6:31; Col 3; Jude 1:2 


27“But to you who are listening, I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, 28bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. 29If someone slaps you on one cheek, turn to them the other also. If someone takes your coat, do not withhold your shirt from them. 30Give to everyone who asks you, and if anyone takes what belongs to you, do not demand it back. 31Do to others as you would have them do to you.”  Luke 6:27-31

With what are we to clothe ourselves?

Colossians 3:12-17

12Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. 13Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. 14And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.

15Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. 16Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts. 17And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.

This love not only loves its enemies but also, sincerely and carefully, takes into consideration the heart and soul of the “one another” (John 13:8,34; 1Pet 1:22)- yes, an enemy, but also a brother or sister - those we might take for granted.  This sincere love, chooses, out of a moral preference, to seek to please the one loved, not desiring to hurt or harm.  This takes wisdom - the seeking and development of knowledge, insight, discernment, discretion, understanding, and the kind of Godly wisdom that is governed by that consideration - that is prudence - and then lovingly enacted with wisdom, consideration, caring.  (Prov 1;2;8)  Sincere, love. 

Romans 15:2-3 2Each of us should please our neighbors for their good, to build them up. 3For even Christ did not please himself”


It is not enough to “not do bad” or even to “do good”. Even the secular/ pagan do this.  (Matt 5:43-48)
But, it is ours to “do the good work prepared in advance for me to do”, being created in Christ Jesus, filled with His Spirit of Love, I am to strive with Jesus in such a way that produces in and from me the fruit of righteousness - that Spirit - and live a life of Christ’s love - doing unto others - the right thing, in the right way, at the right time, for the right reason, with the right manner. 

Eph 5:1-2, 15-20

1Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children 2and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God… 15Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, 16making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. 17Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is. 18Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit, 19speaking to one another with psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit. Sing and make music from your heart to the Lord, 20always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.  


When we’re struggling, having to make such an effort to be and do what we know is right and good, there are three things we should ask ourselves - Galatians 6; Romans 5; James 1; 1Peter 1; 

1. Am I in sin and/or rebellion? 

2. Am I not abiding with Christ closely 

3. Is this a season that God is testing me? 


Greater Things | John 1:41-52

John 1:43-51 

The next day Jesus decided to leave for Galilee. Finding Philip, he said to him, “Follow me.” Philip, like Andrew and Peter, was from the town of Bethsaida. Philip found Nathanael and told him, “We have found the one Moses wrote about in the Law, and about whom the prophets also wrote—Jesus of Nazareth, the son of Joseph.”

“Nazareth! Can anything good come from there?” Nathanael asked.

“Come and see,” said Philip.

When Jesus saw Nathanael approaching, he said of him, “Here truly is an Israelite in whom there is no deceit.”

“How do you know me?” Nathanael asked.

Jesus answered, “I saw you while you were still under the fig tree before Philip called you.”

Then Nathanael declared, “Rabbi, you are the Son of God; you are the king of Israel.”

Jesus said, “You believe because I told you I saw you under the fig tree. You will see greater things than that.” He then added, “Very truly I tell you, you will see ‘heaven open, and the angels of God ascending and descending on’ the Son of Man.”


He sees me… 

(Hagar: “13She gave this name to the Lord who spoke to her: ‘You are the God who sees me,’ for she said, ‘I have now seen the One who sees me.”’ Genesis 16:13 

He knows me… (Pslam 139) 


He calls me…  

Romans 8:28-30

“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters. And those he predestined, he also called; those he called, he also justified; those he justified, he also glorified.

He made me. He makes me, He created and creates me… and calls me by my name.

We will see and do greater things…

“Very truly I tell you, whoever believes in me will do the works I have been doing, and they will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father.” John 14:11-13

So, what does this mean for me? What of these greater things? How can this be?

Jesus' work was to restore us to our Father’s gracious intentions - that through Jesus’ redemptive work we would be restored to working with Him for the care of His creation and making.  With that restoration, God has in essence, re-established in me, in us, our once God-given, dominion.   In Jesus, we have been granted dominion in one world, my world, that world in and for which I am responsible.  

For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do. Ephesians 2:8-10

  • Good - that which originates from and is empowered by God - by him in their lives by or through faith

Dominion!! 

Getting to be righteous and good, that I might do what is righteous and good - and - it’s up to me!  Will I let my righteousness rule (by His Spirit and nature)?  That first act of true dominion - was the naming of the animals… God’s handing Adam the privilege of ruling, caring, familiarizing…

  • Though God HImself would name Adam, all other creatures were named by mankind - including, children - each name having significance, meaning


Yes! 

In Jesus, we have been reconciled to our Father - and (to our renewed) responsibility in and for the kingdom! First, by having been made in the image and likeness of God, as God gave mankind the gift of overseer and caregiver of this world, His world, and with Him, our world - and that, under the umbrella of His sovereignty, mankind was to rule.  But sin tangled all of that up - until, Jesus. THIS IS SOOOO GOOD!!

STOP!!  

Wait a minute!  What do you mean by “given dominion”? What IS dominion and why would God “trust us” with it? - 

Love and privilege, delight in what He delights in, partnership of sorts - a Father with His children, following in His footsteps…  and now, by the Holy Spirit, He has done the same thing with His kingdom (see Matt 25:14-30 the responsibility of the kingdom given to the servants and the hearts of the servants who responded with eagerness, joy, enthusiasm, responsibility, respect, and honor - knowing the true nature of the Master and the Kingdom in contrast with the one servant who did not rightly see (see also Proverbs “fear (reverent awe) of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom and knowledge… but fools despise wisdom”.  Or, the following parable of the sheep and their astonishment in response to God’s praise of their having loved as they were loved “when did we see you and…?”  “when you did it for the least of these…”.  In other words, God knows His and has chosen to work in, through, and with us to accomplish His ends and it “will be done… on earth as it is in heaven”.  This is regeneration - being made in His image, born again by His Spirit, new creatures in Christ, having HIs righteousness, being created in Christ Jesus to do…, being guided on a path of righteousness for His names’ sake - as the people of the Spirit move in ways that cannot be seen by this world… - Romans 8&12; 1John


“God blessed them and said to them, “Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky and over every living creature that moves on the ground.” Genesis 1:28

“The Lord God took the man and put him in the Garden of Eden to work it and take care of it.” Genesis 2:15

But, there arose a problem - sin: expressed as a desire to go beyond dominion with God, but in fact, a rebellious attempt to usurp God, and replace His gracious sovereignty in and over our lives, with our own self-rule, or self-sovereignty - me, my, mine, in place of God - ruling oneself without God’s intervention…  after God had given them everything that was good and life-giving… 

“When the woman saw that the fruit of the tree was good for food and pleasing to the eye, and also desirable for gaining wisdom, she took some and ate it. She also gave some to her husband, who was with her, and he ate it.Genesis 3:6

...even wanting sovereignty, to be able to rule one’s self, alone, the man and woman even wanted to rule over their own care and covering… their, our, inadequate attempt to try and save - self.  “I got this… no, really, I got this”

“ Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they realized they were naked; so they sewed fig leaves together and made coverings for themselves.” Genesis 3:7


So, what’s changed?!  God, rebelled against, aching in the loss, did not extinguish His beloved, but instead granted mercy, clemency of sorts… and set a plan in motion to come and get us and restore us… 

So, second, being created… In Jesus, having received his offer of life in Him and surrendering to His sovereignty, His Lordship, I have, by His grace, been restored to dominion - which is accompanied by true and real free will.  So, now, in Christ, I have a true and actual choice: righteous or not righteous.  As this is the only choice that truly matters. (illustration)

As I have come to Jesus, freed by His mercy and grace, He has given me rule, or dominion, over my life, my choices, whether I will act on the love, the righteousness, the very goodness, He, and His Spirit in me has made me to be able to act on.

To whom will I give my affection, my allegiance, my attention…

And because I now have a choice, I must decide who and what I will entertain and indulge, who and what it is I will follow, emulate, align myself with, and give my allegiance and affection to.  This is what Paul is referring to when he admonishes us in regard to who and whose we are and instructs on the choosing of the course of our lives - here - in this world, with the dominion, I am granted (having had it restored in Jesus) in “my” part of it.

This dominion necessitates something for it to not become a repeat of the Garden’s sin of self-sovereignty -  and that is co-operation.  That is what God granted in the beginning, and now, restores to us in Jesus.  Our choice looks like this:

  • Walk with God, the Spirit and eat from the tree of life - Jesus - bearing the fruit of that spirit (Gal 5:22-23)

  • Walk in the way of the flesh according to the ways of this world, forgoing the Spirit, and eating from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil - the desires of the flesh, or, our humanity. (Gal 5:16-21)

It is in this world, the world given to me, and for which I am responsible, that in order for me to “love AS” and do so sincerely, I must co-operate with the Holy Spirit to govern me and my responses. This is not only true in how I act in and toward the world itself but even more importantly, how I act with and toward the “worlds” of others who intersect with mine - remembering that world that is mine, is not just mine, but God’s and mine - together.  To cooperate I must recognize these truths - As... 

  • “I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.” Gal 2:20
    ...and, 

  • “...it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose.” Phil 2:13  ...and,

  • I can do all this through him who gives me strength. Phil 4:13
    ...all...

  • “...because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.” Rom 5:5

Now I can, and must, in order to “walk in the way of love”, walk with, or, entertain and indulge, or, co-operate with, the Holy Spirit

This co-operation, that enables me to love AS Jesus has loved me and to do this with a sincere love is a matter of the furthering and repeated surrendering of my life, my world, my dominion, to Jesus’ sovereignty as King, or, Lord. 

This choice is the choice, first and foremost, to love God with a humbled and astonished heart of gratefulness.  To not obey the commands of God, to not bow to his sovereignty, to choose to not sincerely love AS  is to undervalue or underappreciate His love - for me, and them.  It is to forget that we have been loved, and how.  It is to take for granted being loved and go on as if…  (Luke 7:36-50,  1John 2:53-11; 4:7-12,16-21)

In being granted dominion, I have been given choice, the freedom to choose to indulge my flesh or the Spirit.  This all has to do with… my love and love’s affection

Who or what I choose to love, to indulge - my flesh or the Holy Spirit and the righteous goodness I have been made to be

You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love. For the entire law is fulfilled in keeping this one command: ...Love your neighbor AS you yourself” (Galatians 5:13-14)


...or, will I walk with the Spirit and work under His power and guiding to take dominion over, as to dominate or subdue my flesh… not let it rule over me, to cause me to worship it - but rule over it - with privilege and responsibility, enjoyment

  • Why these words are hard for us to see as positive or pleasing - because we are in constant rebellion.  We see these, first and foremost, as oppressive and negative, even potentially mean…

  • When in fact, in God’s economy, these are the terms He uses to express His loving care and rule -  His responsibility to care for and govern righteously for its good (Job 38-42; Psalm 19; 139; Col 1

  • So we must be careful how we interpret and apply such words - even the naming of the creatures, and in particular, “woman”, under our sin-stained condition, through the lens of contempt, with the curse still nursed at the breast of anger and resentment, we this act as being chauvinist or patronizing, when in fact it was an act of enthusiastic love and admiration, passion and excitement released in an exclamation of joy and ecstasy 

    • Whenever we recoil at a word or phrase God uses we must go back to our nature, or the nature of our flesh and examine our response relative to our fleshes’ struggle with truth and righteousness, its propensity to be (easily or quickly) offended and assume the worst - especially from God (as the flesh is always in conflict with and contrary to the Spirit) 

    • Given the choice, our flesh will always choose to rebel, to revolt against anything that would seek to subdue it, or make it subject (the reason for Romans 13; Eph 4; 1Peter 2) - which is why we’re given dominion with God over creation, but, it seems, Adam and Eve confused “subdue” and not being subdued by the earth, as a 

    • Satan is able to entice being subject to him, and mankind will gladly submit, by appealing the (rebellious) desires of the flesh - that impulse in us to not be subdued, but subdue, that aspect of the curse that causes us to doubt God’s love and accuse Him of being domineering, unfair, and unjust - even cruel as we rail against the effects of the curse, sin, and death - standing in defiance of God, mistrusting, even opposing.

    • This is why the proverbs speak of “the fear (reverent awe) of God is the beginning of both wisdom and knowledge” seeing rightly for the first time the true nature and character of God - His love expressed in mercy and grace - His goodness expressed in kindness, marked by patience and tolerance (forbearance) (Rom 2)

With that, I am given the choice.  Here are some of the choices we get to make - to love or not love; to love AS Jesus loved me, or to love as I prefer; to love sincerely, or merely put up with and go through the motions, or, to not love at all.

Some of those real-life choices being… 

  • What I will eat and drink - only bread or the word of God; what I want, or what will bless and edify others? 

    • “He humbled you, and in your hunger, He gave you manna to eat, which neither you nor your fathers had known, so that you might understand that man does not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of the LORD.”  (Luke 4:4 (Deut 8:3); Ephesians 5:26; Heb 6:7; Ex 17:6; Rom 14; 1Cor 10:3-4; 12:7,18,25; 13; 14:26; Eph 4:7,12; Phil 2:3-8)

  • What I will wear - tattered and stained clothes or a robe of righteousness (Jude 1:23; Rev 3:4; Isa 61:10; Colossians 3)

    • “I delight greatly in the Lord; my soul rejoices in my God.  For he has clothed me with garments of salvation and arrayed me in a robe of his righteousness, as a bridegroom adorns his head like a priest, and as a bride adorns herself with her jewels.” Isa 61:10

    • I know your deeds; you have a reputation of being alive, but you are dead… Wake up! Strengthen what remains and is about to die, for I have found your deeds unfinished in the sight of my God… But if you do not wake up, I will come like a thief, and you will not know at what time I will come to you.  Yet you have a few people in Sardis who have not soiled their clothes. They will walk with me, dressed in white, for they are worthy.”  Rev 3:1-4

    • Your beauty should not come from outward adornments, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight… submitting themselves…”  ultimately to God’s will and purposes  1Peter 3:3-5

  • How I will speak about and to others - unwholesome and disparaging, empty and idle, or edifying and encouraging, loving and gracious (Eph 4; Col 4:6; Rom 14:9; 15:2)

    • “The good man brings good things out of his good store of treasure, and the evil man brings evil things out of his evil store of treasure.  But I tell you that everyone will have to give account on the day of judgment for every empty word they have spoken.” Matt 12:35-37

    • “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” Eph 4:29

    • “Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.”  Col 4:6

  • How I will treat others - don’t do to anyone what you would not have them do to you or do unto others… OR “Do to others AS…”  Luke 6:31; Col 3; Jude 1:2 Christianity is the only religion that calls us to the blessing. DO UNTO OTHERS as you would have them do. Many religions have a similar philosophy, but its charge is NOT TO do to others as you would not want them to do….

    • “But to you who are listening, I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. If someone slaps you on one cheek, turn to them the other also. If someone takes your coat, do not withhold your shirt from them. Give to everyone who asks you, and if anyone takes what belongs to you, do not demand it back. Do to others as you would have them do to you.”  Luke 6:27-31


With what are we to clothe ourselves?

12Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. 13Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. 14And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.

15Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. 16Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts. 17And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.
Colossians 3:12-17

This love not only loves its enemies but also, sincerely and carefully, takes into consideration the heart and soul of the other - yes, an enemy, but also a brother or sister.  This sincere love, chooses, out of a moral preference, to seek to please the one loved, not desiring to hurt or harm.  This takes wisdom - the seeking and development of knowledge, insight, discernment, discretion, understanding, and the kind of Godly wisdom that is governed by that consideration - that is prudence - and then lovingly enacted with wisdom, consideration, caring.  (Prov 1;2;8)  Sincere, love. 

“Each of us should please our neighbors for their good, to build them up. For even Christ did not please himself” Romans 15:2-3

It is not enough to “not do bad” or even to “do good”. Even the secular/ pagan do this.
But, it is ours to “do the good work prepared in advance for me to do”, being created in Christ Jesus, filled with His Spirit of Love, I am to strive with Jesus in such a way that produces in and from me the fruit of righteousness - that Spirit - and live a life of Christ’s love - doing unto others - the right thing, in the right way, at the right time, for the right reason, with the right manner. Christ Jesus, may I have eyes to see and a heart to know the good works you have prepared for me to do!

Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God… Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is. Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit, speaking to one another with psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit. Sing and make music from your heart to the Lord, always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.  Eph 5:1-2, 15-20


When we’re struggling there are three things we need to ask ourselves

1.) Am I in sin?

2.)Am I not abiding with Christ closely

3.)Is this a season that God is testing me?

Loving as Jesus Loved: Cooperating with the Holy Spirit, the Spirit of Love

“He turned to this woman and said… Do you see this woman? I cam into your house. You did not give me any water for my feet, but she wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair. You did not give me a kiss, but this woman, from the time I entered, has not stopped kissing my feet. You did not put oil on my head, but she has poured perfume on my feet. Therefore, I tell you, her many sins have been forgiven - as her great love has shown. But whoever has been forgiven little, loves little. Then Jesus said to her, ‘your sins are forgiven.”
- Luke 7:44-48

Having been loved, we love, and we love to the degree we recognize our need for forgiveness and the depth of the love that we have been loved with being forgiven.  And, having been loved and forgiven to that degree, we love to the same degree - the way we love will then not only be to the degree we recognize our need for forgiveness and having been loved that way, but our love for Jesus and others will also be as sincere as our gratitude is sincere for having been forgiven.  

With that, we are to not only love then, but express a sincere love, a love, that reflects that sincere gratitude, that recognition of having been forgiven, and forgiven much, that that love, that sincere love, would be much, and is as dedicated to the welfare of the one loved, as Jesus love was dedicated to me - our love now stemming from our sincere and heartfelt gratitude to God for His sincerely loving, me. (Rom 12:1-2; Heb 12:28)


”Love must be sincere…” Romans 12:9

How can we love in this way?  

By recognizing and tapping into the true source of our joy and life… that of being rooted and established in Jesus, His Person, the forgiveness of our sin - His saving work, by His sincere love - then fostering this relationship by walking in close communion with Him.  

As recipients of this gracious gift of life, we must work to remember that it is by Him, and through Him, and to Him, that we have been made citizens in the kingdom of God, and with that in mind, we need to guard our hearts, being careful to not merely focus on and enjoy the benefits of the kingdom - but to rejoice, first and foremost, in our being saved


”The seventy-two returned with joy and said, “Lord, even the demons submit to us in your name.”

He replied, “I saw Satan fall like lightning from heaven. I have given you authority to trample on snakes and scorpions and to overcome all the power of the enemy; nothing will harm you. However, do not rejoice that the spirits submit to you, but rejoice that your names are written in heaven.” -Luke 10:17-20

To whom will this message resonate? To anyone who has the Holy Spirit, a relationship with Jesus as they have recognized their poverty - their need; they mourn over their sin, and the sin of the world, and are therefore eternally and profoundly grateful for what it is they’ve received.


What might this deeper understanding do for me? It will cause me to reflect, to examine, to search again, for the treasure that I have and the treasure that I’m continually offered. To appreciate, even celebrate, this incredible gift of grace I’ve been given and is enriched each and every time He and I commune...

So, what does this mean for me?

Jesus' work was to restore us to our Father’s gracious intentions - that through Jesus’ redemptive work we would be restored to working with Him for the care of His creation and making.  With that restoration, God has in essence, re-established in me, in us, our once given, dominion.   In Jesus, we have been granted dominion in one world, my world, that world in and for which I am responsible. 

Dominion!

Yes! In Jesus, we have been reconciled to our Father - and (to our renewed) responsibility in and for the kingdom! First, by having been made in the image and likeness of God, as God gave mankind the gift of overseer and caregiver of this world, His world, and with Him, our world - and that, under the umbrella of His sovereignty, mankind was to rule. But sin tangled all of that up - until, Jesus. THIS IS SOOOO GOOD!!

STOP!! Wait a minute! What do you mean by “given dominion”? What IS dominion and why would God “trust us” with it?

“God blessed them and said to them, “Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky and over every living creature that moves on the ground.” - Genesis 1:28

“The Lord God took the man and put him in the Garden of Eden to work it and take care of it.” - Genesis 2:15

But, there arose a problem - sin: expressed as a desire to go beyond dominion with God, but in fact, a rebellious attempt to usurp God, and replace His gracious sovereignty in and over our lives, with our own self-rule, or self-sovereignty - me, my, mine, in place of God - ruling oneself without God’s intervention… after God had given them everything that was good and life-giving…

 “When the woman saw that the fruit of the tree was good for food and pleasing to the eye, and also desirable for gaining wisdom, she took some and ate it. She also gave some to her husband, who was with her, and he ate it.” - Genesis 3:6

...even wanting sovereignty, to be able to rule one’s self, alone, the man and woman even wanted to rule over their own care and covering… their, our, inadequate attempt to try and save - self. “I got this… no, really, I got this”

“Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they realized they were naked; so they sewed fig leaves together and made coverings for themselves.” - Genesis 3:7

So, what’s changed?!  God, rebelled against, aching in the loss, did not extinguish His beloved, but instead granted mercy, a clemency of sorts… and set a plan in motion to come and get us and restore us… 

So, second, being created… In Jesus, having received his offer of life in Him and surrendering to His sovereignty, His Lordship, I have, by His grace, been restored to dominion - which is accompanied by true and real free will. So, now, in Christ, I have a true and actual choice: righteous or not righteous. As this is the only choice that truly matters.

As I have come to Jesus, freed by His mercy and grace, He has given me rule, or dominion, over my life, my choices, whether I will act on the love, the righteousness, the very goodness, He, and His Spirit in me has made me to act on.

To whom will I give my affection, my allegiance, my attention…

And because I now have a choice, I must decide who and what I will entertain and indulge, who and what it is I will follow, emulate, align myself with, and give my allegiance and affection to.  This is what Paul is referring to when he admonishes us in regard to who and whose we are and instructs on the choosing of the course of our lives - here - in this world, with the dominion, I am granted (having had it restored in Jesus) in “my” part of it.

This dominion necessitates something for it to not become a repeat of the Garden’s sin of self-sovereignty -  and that is co-operation.  That is what God granted in the beginning, and now, restores to us in Jesus.  Our choice looks like this:

  • Walk with God, the Spirit and eat from the tree of life - Jesus - bearing the fruit of that spirit (Gal 5:22-23)

  • Walk in the way of the flesh according to the ways of this world, forgoing the Spirit, and eating from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil - the desires of the flesh, or, our humanity. (Gal 5:16-21)

It is in this world, the world given to me, and for which I am responsible, that in order for me to “love AS” and do so sincerely, I must co-operate with the Holy Spirit to govern me and my responses. This is not only true in how I act in and toward the world itself but even more importantly, how I act with and toward the “worlds” of others who intersect with mine - remembering that world that is mine, is not just mine, but God’s and mine - together.  To cooperate I must recognize these truths - As... 

  • “I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.” Gal 2:20
    ...and, 

  • “...it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose.” Phil 2:13  ...and,

  • I can do all this through him who gives me strength. Phil 4:13
    ...all...

  • “...because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.” Rom 5:5

Now I can, and must, in order to “walk in the way of love”, walk with, or, entertain and indulge, or, co-operate with, the Holy Spirit

This co-operation, that enables me to love AS Jesus has loved me and to do this with a sincere love is a matter of the furthering and repeated surrendering of my life, my world, my dominion, to Jesus’ sovereignty as King, or, Lord. 

This choice is the choice, first and foremost, to love God with a humbled and astonished heart of gratefulness.  To not obey the commands of God, to not bow to his sovereignty, to choose to not sincerely love AS  is to undervalue or underappreciate His love - for me, and them.  It is to forget that we have been loved, and how.  It is to take for granted being loved and go on as if…  (Luke 7:36-50,  1John 2:53-11; 4:7-12,16-21)

In being granted dominion

I have been given choice, the freedom to choose to indulge my flesh or the Spirit.  This all has to do with… my love and love’s affection

Who or what I choose to love, to indulge - my flesh or the Holy Spirit and the righteous goodness I have been made to be

You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love. For the entire law is fulfilled in keeping this one command: ...Love your neighbor AS you yourself” -Galatians 5:13-14

Here are some of the choices we get to make - to love or not love; to love AS Jesus loved me, or to love as I prefer; to love sincerely, or merely put up with and go through the motions, or, to not love at all.

Some of those real-life choices being… 

  • What I will eat and drink - only bread or the word of God; what I want, or what will bless and edify others? 

    • “He humbled you, and in your hunger, He gave you manna to eat, which neither you nor your fathers had known, so that you might understand that man does not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of the LORD.”  (Luke 4:4 (Deut 8:3); Ephesians 5:26; Heb 6:7; Ex 17:6; Rom 14; 1Cor 10:3-4; 12:7,18,25; 13; 14:26; Eph 4:7,12; Phil 2:3-8)

  • What I will wear - tattered and stained clothes or a robe of righteousness (Jude 1:23; Rev 3:4; Isa 61:10; Colossians 3)

    • “I delight greatly in the Lord; my soul rejoices in my God.  For he has clothed me with garments of salvation and arrayed me in a robe of his righteousness, as a bridegroom adorns his head like a priest, and as a bride adorns herself with her jewels.” Isa 61:10

    • I know your deeds; you have a reputation of being alive, but you are dead… Wake up! Strengthen what remains and is about to die, for I have found your deeds unfinished in the sight of my God… But if you do not wake up, I will come like a thief, and you will not know at what time I will come to you. Yet you have a few people in Sardis who have not soiled their clothes. They will walk with me, dressed in white, for they are worthy.”  Rev 3:1-4

    • Your beauty should not come from outward adornments, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight… submitting themselves…”  ultimately to God’s will and purposes  1Peter 3:3-5

  • How I will speak about and to others - unwholesome and disparaging, empty and idle, or edifying and encouraging, loving and gracious (Eph 4; Col 4:6; Rom 14:9; 15:2)

    • “The good man brings good things out of his good store of treasure, and the evil man brings evil things out of his evil store of treasure.  But I tell you that everyone will have to give account on the day of judgment for every empty word they have spoken.” Matt 12:35-37

    • “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” Eph 4:29

    • “Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.”  Col 4:6

  • How I will treat others - don’t do to anyone what you would not have them do to you or do unto others… OR “Do to others AS…”  Luke 6:31; Col 3; Jude 1:2 Christianity is the only religion that calls us to the blessing. DO UNTO OTHERS as you would have them do. Many religions have a similar philosophy, but its charge is NOT TO do to others as you would not want them to do….

    • “But to you who are listening, I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. If someone slaps you on one cheek, turn to them the other also. If someone takes your coat, do not withhold your shirt from them. Give to everyone who asks you, and if anyone takes what belongs to you, do not demand it back. Do to others as you would have them do to you.”  - Luke 6:27-31

With what are we to clothe ourselves?

Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.

Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts. And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him. - Colossians 3:12-17

This love not only loves its enemies but also, sincerely and carefully, takes into consideration the heart and soul of the other - yes, an enemy, but also a brother or sister.  This sincere love, chooses, out of a moral preference, to seek to please the one loved, not desiring to hurt or harm.  This takes wisdom - the seeking and development of knowledge, insight, discernment, discretion, understanding, and the kind of Godly wisdom that is governed by that consideration - that is prudence - and then lovingly enacted with wisdom, consideration, caring.  (Prov 1;2;8)  Sincere, love. 

“Each of us should please our neighbors for their good, to build them up. For even Christ did not please himself” - Romans 15:2-3

It is not enough to “not do bad” or even to “do good”. Even the secular/ pagan do this.
But, it is ours to “do the good work prepared in advance for me to do”, being created in Christ Jesus, filled with His Spirit of Love, I am to strive with Jesus in such a way that produces in and from me the fruit of righteousness - that Spirit - and live a life of Christ’s love - doing unto others - the right thing, in the right way, at the right time, for the right reason, with the right manner. Christ Jesus, may I have eyes to see and a heart to know the good works you have prepared for me to do!

Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God… Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is. Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit, speaking to one another with psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit. Sing and make music from your heart to the Lord, always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.  Eph 5:1-2, 15-20

When we’re struggling there are three things we need to ask ourselves
1.) Am I in sin?
2.) Am I not abiding with Christ closely
3.) Is this a season that God is testing me?

Loving AS… Jesus loved, co-operating with the Holy Spirit, the Spirit of love.

Romans 12:9 “Love must be sincere…”

How can we love this way? 
It is about the source of our joy and life… It is about being rooted and established in Jesus, His Person and saving work; in the kingdom God; and being careful to not merely enjoy the benefits of the kingdom)

17”The seventy-two returned with joy and said, “Lord, even the demons submit to us in your name.”

18He replied, “I saw Satan fall like lightning from heaven. 19I have given you authority to trample on snakes and scorpions and to overcome all the power of the enemy; nothing will harm you. 20However, do not rejoice that the spirits submit to you, but rejoice that your names are written in heaven.” Luke 10:17-20

So, what does this mean for me?

God granted me dominion.  I have dominion in one world, my world.  First, having been made in the image and likeness of God, God gave mankind the gift of overseer and caregiver of this world, their world - under the umbrella of His sovereignty, mankind was to rule.  But sin tangled all of that up - until, Jesus.  

STOP!!  Wait a minute!  What do you mean by “given dominion”?

“God blessed them and said to them, “Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky and over every living creature that moves on the ground.” Genesis 1:28

“The Lord God took the man and put him in the Garden of Eden to work it and take care of it.” Genesis 2:15

But, there arose a problem - sin: expressed as a desire to go beyond dominion with God, to replace sovereignty over self in place of God - ruling oneself without God

“When the woman saw that the fruit of the tree was good for food and pleasing to the eye, and also desirable for gaining wisdom, she took some and ate it. She also gave some to her husband, who was with her, and he ate it.” Genesis 3:6

...even wanting sovereignty, to rule alone, over our own care and covering… our saving of - self.

“ 7Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they realized they were naked; so they sewed fig leaves together and made coverings for themselves. ” Genesis 3:7

In Jesus

Having received his offer of life in Him and surrendering to His sovereignty, I have been restored to dominion - which is accompanied by free will.  So, now, in Christ, I have a true and actual choice: righteous or not righteous.  As this is the only choice that truly matters.

As I have come to Jesus, freed by His mercy and grace, He has given me rule, or dominion, over my life, my choices, whether I will act on the love, the righteousness, the very goodness, He, and His Spirit in me has made me to act on.

And because I now have a choice, I must decide who and what I will entertain and indulge, who and what it is I will follow, emulate, align myself with, and give my allegiance and affection to.  This is what Paul is referring to when he admonishes us in regard to who and whose we are and instructs on the choosing of the course of our lives - here - in this world, with the dominion, I am granted (having had it restored in Jesus) in “my” part of it.

This dominion necessitates something for it to not become the Garden’s sin of self-sovereignty -  and that is co-operation

That is what God granted in the beginning, and now, restores to us in Jesus.  Our choice looks like this:

  • Walk with God, the Spirit and eat from the tree of life - Jesus - bearing the fruit of that spirit (Gal 5:22-23)

  • Walk in the way of the flesh according to the ways of this world, forgoing the Spirit, and eating from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil - the desires of the flesh, or, our humanity. (Gal 5:16-21)

It is in this world, the world given to me, and for which I am responsible, that in order for me to love AS and sincerely, I must cooperate with the Holy Spirit to govern me and my responses. This is not only true in how I act in and toward the world itself but even more importantly, how I act with and toward the “worlds” of others who intersect with mine - remembering that world that is mine, is not just mine, but God’s and mine - together.  As... 

  • “I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.” Gal 2:20
    ...and, 

  • “...for it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose.” Phil 2:13 
    ...and,

  • I can do all this through him who gives me strength. Phil 4:13
    ...all...

  • “...because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.” Rom 5:5

  • Now I can, and must, in order to “walk in the way of love”, walk with, or, entertain and indulge, or, co-operate with, the Holy Spirit

This co-operation, that enables me to love AS Jesus has loved me and to do this with a sincere love is a matter of the furthering and repeated surrendering of my life, my world, my dominion, to Jesus’ sovereignty as King. 

This choice is the choice, first and foremost, to love God with a humbled and astonished heart of gratefulness.  To not obey the commands of God, to not bow to his sovereignty, to choose to not sincerely love AS  is to undervalue or underappreciate His love - for me, and them.  It is to forget that we have been loved, and how.  It is to take for granted being loved and go on as if…  (Luke 7:36-50,  1John 2:53-11; 4:7-12,16-21)

In being granted dominion, I have been given choice, the freedom to choose to indulge my flesh or the Spirit.  This all has to do with...

Who or what I choose to love, to indulge - my flesh or the Holy Spirit 

13You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love. 14For the entire law is fulfilled in keeping this one command: ...Love your neighbor AS you yourself” Galatians 5:13-14

Here are some of the choices we get to make - to love or not love; to love AS Jesus loved me, or to love as I prefer; to love sincerely, or merely put up with and go through the motions.

Some of those real-life choices being… 

  • What I will eat and drink - only bread or the word of God

    • “He humbled you, and in your hunger, He gave you manna to eat, which neither you nor your fathers had known, so that you might understand that man does not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of the LORD.”  (Luke 4:4 (Deut 8:3); Ephesians 5:26; Heb 6:7; Ex 17:6; Rom 14; 1Cor 10:3-4)

  • What I will wear - tattered and stained clothes or a robe of righteousness (Jude 1:23; Rev 3:4; Isa 61:10; Colossians 3)

    • 10I delight greatly in the Lord; my soul rejoices in my God.  For he has clothed me with garments of salvation and arrayed me in a robe of his righteousness, as a bridegroom adorns his head like a priest, and as a bride adorns herself with her jewels.” Isa 61:10

    • “I know your deeds; you have a reputation of being alive, but you are dead… 2Wake up! Strengthen what remains and is about to die, for I have found your deeds unfinished in the sight of my God… But if you do not wake up, I will come like a thief, and you will not know at what time I will come to you.  4Yet you have a few people in Sardis who have not soiled their clothes. They will walk with me, dressed in white, for they are worthy.”  Rev 3:1-4

    • 3Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. 4Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight… submitting themselves…”  ultimately to God’s will and purposes  1Peter 3:3-5

  • How I will speak about and to others - unwholesome and disparaging, empty and idle, or edifying and encouraging, loving and gracious (Eph 4; Col 4:6; Rom 14:9; 15:2)

    • “The good man brings good things out of his good store of treasure, and the evil man brings evil things out of his evil store of treasure.  But I tell you that everyone will have to give account on the day of judgment for every empty word they have spoken.” Matt 12:35-37

    • 29Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” Eph 4:29

    • “Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.”  Col 4:6

  • How I will treat others - don’t do to anyone what you would not have them do to you or do unto others… OR “Do to others AS…”  Luke 6:31; Col 3; Jude 1:2

    • 27“But to you who are listening, I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, 28bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. 29If someone slaps you on one cheek, turn to them the other also. If someone takes your coat, do not withhold your shirt from them. 30Give to everyone who asks you, and if anyone takes what belongs to you, do not demand it back. 31Do to others as you would have them do to you.”  Luke 27-31

With what are we to clothe ourselves?

12Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. 13Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. 14And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.

15Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. 16Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts. 17And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him. Colossians 3:12-17

This love not only loves its enemies but also, sincerely and carefully, takes into consideration the heart and soul of the other - yes, an enemy, but also a brother or sister.  This sincere love, chooses, out of a moral preference, to seek to please the one loved, not desiring to hurt or harm.  This takes wisdom - the seeking and development of knowledge, insight, discernment, discretion, understanding, and the kind of Godly wisdom that is governed by that consideration - that is prudence - and then lovingly enacted with wisdom, consideration, caring.  (Prov 1;2;8)  Sincere, love. 

2Each of us should please our neighbors for their good, to build them up. 3For even Christ did not please himself” Romans 15:2-3

It is not enough to “not do bad” or even to “do good”. 

But, it is ours to “do the good work prepared in advance for me to do”, being created in Christ Jesus, filled with His Spirit of Love, I am to strive with Jesus in such a way that produces in and from me the fruit of righteousness - that Spirit - and live a life of Christ’s love - doing unto others - the right thing, in the right way, at the right time, for the right reason, with the right manner.

1Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children 2and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God… 15Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, 16making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. 17Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is. 18Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit, 19speaking to one another with psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit. Sing and make music from your heart to the Lord, 20always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.  Eph 5:1-2, 15-20

When we’re struggling there are three things we need to ask ourselves

1.) Am I in sin?
2.)Am I not abiding with Christ closely
3.)Is this a season that God is testing me?


Sincere Love Perseveres: 1Cor 13; Rom 12:9

Love each other AS I have loved you.  Remembering that that love must be sincere. 

What is love then? Sincere love, at that. 

1Cor 13:4-8

4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.  8Love never fails.

If love, sincere love, is “patient, kind, not rude, persevering, etc.” wouldn't it be true that there is not a single one of this love’s attributes or virtues that cannot truly prove themselves unless they are tested?  And, that, to be tested, it must be tested by the one we are to love?  Or else the very defining principles that make love what it is, would be fanciful, at best. 

So, if it is true, that love is not love unless and until it is tested…

...we should expect our love, patience, faithfulness, temperament to be tested.  Isn’t this what happened in the Garden?  Would this not be the purpose behind the one prohibitive command given to the man and the woman?  “Do not eat…” 

We take a moment to ask ourselves…

What is the best kind of love?  The most profound expression of love?  The love that can be most trusted?  Is it not that which lasts?  Which stays?  Which waits?  Which cares?  Which is patient, tolerating our stupidity?  Which is kind in the face of unsolicited attacks, neglect, rudeness, selfishness, etc.?  

Is this not a love, the love, that can actually be trusted?  Leaned upon?  Leaned into?  Relied on?  And isn’t that because this love has been tested AND, for the most part, consistently passed, that test?

Why though?  Why is this the kind of love that we are to exhibit?  That we can trust?

Well, this is an earthly expression of a kingdom truth.  This is the love that God loves with.  This is the love that God desires to be loved by.  I believe we too often underestimate just how committed God is to such an authentic and real expression of affection, care, consideration, dedication, commitment, that our more fully grasping that truth - would aid us in our seeing love for what it really is and we might not be so surprised at what it actually takes to express love - AS Jesus loved us, really and truly, loves. 

We, through Christ who strengthens us, can do this - we can love AS we have been loved…

We must remember that the vast majority of the commands and instructions in the N.T. have to do with how Christians are to conduct themselves with one another - in other words - the epistles are the instructions and correctives in living out our proof of being Jesus’ disciples.  

John 13:34-35

34“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. 35By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”

It is that the New Testament, the epistles, in particular, is an entire educational and vocational training on the “loving (of) one another” and having that loving be a sincere act that demonstrates our being transformed and miraculously empowered to transcend our flesh and its desires to love one another as Jesus loved us - when, where, and how Jesus loved us - to make a body, a fellowship, that declares to the world that there is a God among them, that Jesus’ death, life, and resurrection is real, that the power of the Holy Spirit does exist in us - Peter calls this “participating in the divine nature”  2Peter 1

The power of the Holy Spirit in us is not best displayed by random demonstrations of charisma, but by the consistent overcoming of our flesh and its selfish desires, the miraculous power to enable disparate people to be one in spirit, mind, and mission.  Amen! This is proof of living a life that is not our own. 

Philippians 2:1-3
“If you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any common sharing in the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, 2then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind”

The miraculous power of the Holy Spirit and His ability to transform lives is evidenced in His ability to produce love in the hearts and lives of human beings for one another - period.  That is what will attract the lost to Jesus, it is this sincere love expressed to the “one another” that testifies to Jesus’ reality, His ability, nay, His desire to save, to redeem, and transform.

Philippians 2:4-7
3Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value, or consider, others above yourselves, 4not (only) looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.  5In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus.  6Who, being in very nature a God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; 7rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature b of a servant...: and became obedient to death…”

When?  When love is actually - patient and kind.  And… Love is sincere when love has come through all, every, and each of these thresholds, and (this) love actually, and really, perseveres…

1Corinthians 13

1If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.

4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

8Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. 11When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 12For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.

13And now these three remain faith, hope, and love. But the greatest of these is love.

But how?  How do we love sincerely, when I do not sincerely feel love?

Join with Jesus, by His Spirit, to the glory of the Father… God wants this for us more than we do.  And of this, there is no doubt - as our flesh would always say otherwise.  So, let us not indulge the flesh and its ways, but instead the Spirit of God (Gal 5)

  • Stop: examine, take an inventory of your thoughts and feelings.  What words and feelings are circling in your heart and head?  Remember, this love we speak of is a choice, a moral preference, an expression of the sacrificial love Jesus has shown you.  So it is important to know what you are thinking and feeling to discern rightly how to love. 

    • “Take captive every thought and make obedient to Jesus, the Truth, according to the Spirit” 2Cor 10:3-5

    • Grow in wisdom - collecting: insight, discernment, discretion, understanding, wisdom - well garnished with prudence. Prov 1;2;8

  • Ask: God to assist you, to activate the Spirit in you to bear its fruit, but bear in mind, for these fruits to be born, we must submit to the Spirit’s leading (Gal 5:13) 

    • “...the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.” Gal 5:22-23

    • James 1:16-18
      16Don’t be deceived, my dear brothers and sisters. 17Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. 18He chose to give us birth through the word of truth, that we might be a kind of firstfruits of all he created.

  • Listen: to the Spirit (this is a type of testing the Spirit/spirit). I ask myself “Would Satan move me to do this?” Is this of Christ’s character or of the enemy’s. Remember the enemy is a thief, not a giver not is he generous. He kills and destroys. He doesn’t bring life or create.) 

The testing of the spirits in this context (1John 4:1-6) has to do with discerning by what spirit this person is directed to speak and act - as in hearing or seeing someone, who, in the name of God or calling oneself a Christian, or claims to have the Holy Spirit, whether this person’s message (consistently) reflects that truth - learning to discern by what spirit that is person is being led and prompted.  Is this person under the influence of the Holy Spirit or a “spirit of deception”? 

With that said, it is necessary, for sure, to test what is prompting me - am I being led by the Spirit or am I being deceived by another?  It is essential that we take this prompting, these thoughts and inclinations captive and make obedient to Christ - subject it to truth - to see if that prompting stands in accordance with the truth.

Testing one’s motives certainly involves the spirit - one’s own as well as the Holy Spirit, but this is much self and internal - true assessment: honesty and transparency

          • God’s Spirit with my spirit

          • The spirit of the world tempting my flesh or my fleshes’ desire to do its own thing - the testing of motives

            • “When you pray, do not stand on a street corner - but go to your closet where God sees in secret” 

            • “When you do your act of righteousness do so in a way that your left-hand does not know what your right hand is doing”

            • “...mercy, not sacrifice…”

            • Simon the Sorcerer 

            • Doing righteous things that I may tell of it or for the purpose of bringing someone pain or harm

***Jesus often spoke of doing things in secret - not only protecting the doer from pride and loss of rewards, but, perhaps even more profoundly loving, to protect the dignity of the one helped - whether it be purely protective or to keep the one given aid from becoming a side-show. ***

The servant takes the lowest seat, does his business quietly without braggadocio 

Jesus was clear in regard to His desires for His disciples to have a properly humble attitude of heart that would express itself with (the) dignity and honor of those served in mind “honor one another above yourself” 

So it is essential that we take time and effort to humble ourselves, to develop an attitude of humility toward God and others - in service and prayer

As we do so, our lives will more accurately reflect Jesus in its attitude (Phil 2) and consistency as we begin to more and more “naturally” display these characteristics - we will more readily, almost automatically, act with Christlikeness, humility, others’-centered, protective of another’s dignity - as it becomes a value in our lives, a conviction of sorts, that which is so developed that it is what governs our thoughts, motives, and actions. 

    • If it's good and right and just and fair, then it comes from the Spirit of Truth that speaks only of Jesus… John 14:26

    • If it’s not good or right it’s of the flesh - because the flesh is always contrary, or at odds, with the Spirit Gal 5:13

    • Ask and listen some more, again, and again, if necessary

  • Go: love - whoever, however, God has commanded and prompted and enabled

So again, we must ask ourselves… 

John 15:12-14
12My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. 13Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. 14You are my friends if you do what I command.”

This is not an easy love.  This is not a “feel-good” love.  This is not a love that necessarily gets loved back.  

This is divine love.  This is a right love - the right thing, in the right way, at the right time, for the right reasons kind-of love. 

This a love that is rewarding and rewarded, but maybe not in this lifetime.

This is a love that changes and transforms lives - our own and the lives of those who this love touches - even if it is only a matter of “burning coals”.

How Should I Love... Who? Rom 12; Luke 6

Loving as Jesus loves… The truth of our ability to love others, or “each other as…” lies right at the root of God‘s love for us, His heart’s divine nature that expresses this divine love - and He has placed His divine love in our hearts by his Spirit, but not just so we can ourselves experience it, but that as we have experienced it, we can now express it too. It is this type of love they God can then rightly and justly command us to demonstrate, to express, to others - the privilege of “participating in Gods divine nature” (2Peter 1).  

And this love… must be sincere - Romans 12:9-21

9Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. 10Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. 11Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. 12Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. 13Share with the Lord’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality.

14Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse. 15Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. 16Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position.  Do not be conceited.

17Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. 18If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. 19Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord. 20On the contrary:

“If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.”   21Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

What is sincere love?  What is love that is unfeigned?

Sincere: not a phony ("put on"), describing sincere behavior free from hidden agendas (selfish motives) – literally, "without hypocrisy" (unfeigned).

This is a distinctly Christian and or biblical word or phrase. It does not exist in secular literature in the Greek.

It is because Paul, in essence, had to make up a word that described genuine and authentic, Spirit-prompted and empowered, Jesus enacted and thus imitated, a divine love, emitting from God and His Spirit, that Jesus lived and commanded (of) His Spirit empowered siblings to be) divinely expressed - agape love 

Love: love that centers on moral preference. Prefer you and your well-being over my rights and liberties (Rom 14)

It is important that we come to recognize this truth. That God would make up a word that did not exist in humanity before to describe his love to mankind, in particular, his children (Rom 5:8; Eph 3:9) and then demand of his Spirit-filled children. (Ephesians 5:1-2)

Romans 5:5 “God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.”

Whose responsibility is it to love: it is mine, it is always mine.  I have no control over someone’s else’s loving or their responses to my loving them. 

Who am I responsible to love?  This is not a new question: 

Luke 10:25-29-37

29But he (the expert in the Law) wanted to justify himself, so he asked Jesus, “And who is my neighbor?”

Why? Why would I ask that question?  

Because only I can control what I do.  And God, holds me, only, responsible for my love and loving.  How someone else loves or receives or responds to my love, is none of my business.  And even more so, does not in any way permit me to then choose whether I love or not. 

The principal lies in the “as long as it is up to you…“ Rom 12:18-21 Command tied together with the “do you to others…“ Command of this love Luke 6:32-36

  • 32“If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them. 33And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners do that. 34And if you lend to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, expecting to be repaid in full. 35But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. 36Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.  Luke 6:32-36

So, maybe we need to ask ourselves this question…

Can love be sincere, as the scriptures talk about and define sincere love, if once that love is tested, or even opposed, that that love ceases?

When we cannot nor should not be near someone, we need to remember that - this does not mean we cannot nor should not - agape - them.  This is when Jesus’s command to pray for those who mistreat you becomes real and we can come to understand that…

“Prayer is closer than and as loving as loving as physical proximity - we have to trust the Holy Spirit get inside the person when we cannot or should not be beside the person…

...remembering that our Father lovers them more than we do, more than we can, and does wo with no risk to Himself… so, let Him, truth Him, and join Him in loving them - in and with prayer.”

Matt 5:44; Luke 6:28; 1Thes 5:16-18; 1Sam 12:23

As for the rest of those who are or have been in our lives, it is ours, as long as it is up to us, to live at peace with them, to love them through difficulty and disagreement, even if they choose to not love in return. (Matt 5; Luke 6)

Well, what are the specifics?  Is there a limit?

Another question as old as humanity’s existence.  Well, what did Jesus tell Peter when Peter tried to impress Jesus with his magnanimity (bountiful display of forgiveness)?  “Oh, no, 70X’s7 times”?  What do we think He meant by that? (see the wicked servant)

Matthew 21-35

“21Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?”  22Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.”

What is love then?  If it is “patient, kind, not rude, persevering, etc.” wouldn't it be true that there is not a single one of its virtues that cannot prove themselves unless they are tested?

We must remember that the vast majority of the commands and instructions in the N.T. have to do with how Christians are to conduct themselves with one another - in other words - the epistles are the instructions and correctives in living out our proof of being Jesus’ disciples.  

John 13:34-35

34“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. 35By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”

It is that the New Testament is an entire educational and vocational training on the “loving one another” and having that loving be a sincere act that demonstrates our being transformed and miraculously empowered to transcend our flesh and its desires to love one another as Jesus loved us - when and how Jesus loved us - to make a body, a fellowship, that declares to the world that there is a God among them, that Jesus’ death, life, and resurrection is real, that the power of the Holy Spirit does exist in us

The power of the Holy Spirit in us is not best displayed by random demonstrations of charisma, but by the consistent overcoming of our flesh and its selfish desires, the miraculous power to enable disparate people to be one in spirit, mind, and mission.  

Philippians 2:1-3

“If you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any common sharing in the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, 2then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind”

The miraculous power of the Holy Spirit and His ability to transform lives is His ability to produce love in the hearts and lives of human beings - period.  That is what will attract the lost to Jesus, it is this sincere love that testifies to Jesus’ reality, His ability, nay, His desire to save, to redeem, and transform.

Philippians 2:4-7

3Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value, or consider, others above yourselves, 4not (only) looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.  5In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus.  6Who, being in very nature a God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; 7rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature b of a servant...: and became obedient to death…”

When?  When love is actually - patient and kind.  And… 

Love is sincere when love has come through all, every, and each of these thresholds, and (this) love actually, and really, perseveres…

1Corinthians 13

1If I speak in the tongues a of men or of angels but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, b but do not have love, I gain nothing.

4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

8Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. 11When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 12For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.

13And now these three remain faith, hope, and love. But the greatest of these is love.

So again, we must ask ourselves… 

John 15:12-14

12My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. 13Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. 14You are my friends if you do what I command.”



Loving As We Have Been Loved : Mercy - Compassion & Comfort

Loving as… At a time like this, we must continue to keep at the forefront of our minds, the mercy of our God. (Romans 12:1) what we have experienced with Jesus, and the grand privilege of being his disciple, being formed and shaped into His image and likeness, created to be like him by the hands of our father.

What did that, does that, look like? 

John 15: 12My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. 13Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. 14You are my friends if you do what I command.”

No greater love than laying one’s life down for a friend… what can it mean “to lay one’s life down?

Could it be, that we can lay down our lives for our friends, and not even “die”?  Could it be, that the most difficult way to lay down one’s life for a friend is actually to “die to self”?  And that, on their behalf?  For their good?  And that, out of a love that prefers someone else’s well-being, well-fare, the ultimate good, over my own?  Maybe even at the expense of my own?  My own life?

1Peter 2:24 "He himself bore our sins" in his body on the cross, so that we might die to sins and live for righteousness; "by his wounds, you have been healed."

Rom 12:1-21Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. 2Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing, and perfect will.


This truth lies right at the root of God‘s love for us, and the divine love He has placed in our hearts by his Spirit, and the type of love he can then rightly and justly command us to demonstrate, to express, to others.  And this love…

Rom 5

And this...

Love must be sincere - Romans 12:9

9Love must be sincere.

How can we love this way?

17The seventy-two returned with joy and said, “Lord, even the demons submit to us in your name.”

18He replied, “I saw Satan fall like lightning from heaven. 19I have given you authority to trample on snakes and scorpions and to overcome all the power of the enemy; nothing will harm you. 20However, do not rejoice that the spirits submit to you, but rejoice that your names are written in heaven.”


So, what does this mean for me?

God granted me dominion.  I have dominion in one world, my world.  It is in that world that I cooperate with the Holy Spirit to govern me and my responses to the worlds that intersect with mine (or better stated, ours God’s and mine) - as 

  • “I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.” Gal 2:20 ...and, 

  • “...for it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose.” Phil 2:13  ...and,

  • I can do all this through him who gives me strength. Phil 4:13

In being granted dominion, I have been given choice, the freedom to choose to indulge my flesh or the Spirit.

  • Who or what to indulge - my flesh or the Holy Spirit (Galatians 5:13)

  • What I will eat and drink - only bread or the word of God (Luke 4:4 (Deut 8:3); Ephesians 5:26; Heb 6:7; Ex 17:6; 1Cor 10:3-4)

  • What I will wear - tattered and stained clothes or a robe of righteousness (Jude 1:23; Rev 3:4; Isa 61:10; Colossians 3)

  • How I will speak about and to others - unwholesome and disparaging or edifying and encouraging (Eph 4; Col 4:6)

  • How I will treat others - don’t do to anyone what you would not have them do to you or do unto others… Luke 6:31; Col 3; Jude 1:2


Colossians 3:12-17

12Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. 13Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. 14And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.

15Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. 16Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts. 17And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.

Clothe yourself with compassion…

  • deep feeling about someone's difficulty or misfortune

  • “visceral compassions" the deep feelings God has for all of us, and powerfully shows and shares in those following Him.

This command is no different than to love others as I have loved you, is the cash and where to share, the comfort the proceeds from it, he is the same compassionate comfort offered to us by her father


2Corinthians 1:3-7

3Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, 4who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. 5For just as we share abundantly in the sufferings of Christ, so also our comfort abounds through Christ. 6If we are distressed, it is for your comfort and salvation; if we are comforted, it is for your comfort, which produces in you patient endurance of the same sufferings we suffer. 7And our hope for you is firm, because we know that just as you share in our sufferings, so also you share in our comfort.

So, AS, God has shown us compassion, we are to show others compassion. And, AS, God has comforted of us, we are to comfort others.

What’s most astonishing here, is that God chooses to comfort us just as often by internal means comfort us directly by the spirit to comfort us with, to comfort us through the hands and hearts of others.

Hence the command, and to “love as“, close yourself with compassion, as, and comfort others, As, you have been comforted…

The word as, then, is it self magnified by hits the sponsor ability to challenge, and by it being magnified, it further magnifies what we’ve experienced, and therefore what we are to give.

And us, none of us have an excuse.

So as, certainly means for us to look at God and his grace and his mercy and his love, but not only so, the wind in the way, when he did such a thing – while I was his enemy. And the way he did such a thing. Certainly through the Spirit, but really, just as often, He chooses to comfort us by that same Spirit through the heart - the hands and feet and resources of another - one of the “one another”.

That’s the point of the commands, they are meant to lead us to be the same thing for others AS He has done for us through others AS He has prompted them - and they have “loved AS… they have been loved”.  To become “imitators of God AS dearly loved children…” (Eph 5:1-2)

This should also cause us to reflect on those in my life presently. Certainly with an eye to love, bring compassion, bring care and comfort.

And, certainly by God’s hand in it.

But, just as importantly, we see God’s working in and through the lives of others in our life. Those in the past, the present, and, now, having experienced such a faithful love, trusting that God will bring others into our lives for the same purpose, in the future.

As we experience these beautiful attributes of God, and that by His Spirit and through the lives of the brotherhood - the one another, the fellowship of believers - our faith grows, our trust grows, our hope increases, the peace we experience becomes transcendent, our minds are changed and transformed, or beliefs are solidified, or assurance is increased, producing in us, as we reflect on these truths, a heart of gratefulness, and a passion to tell others of this great love - expressed in compassion and comfort. 

And to increase the privilege of blessing - others… Loving AS

And tangibly, all of this opens our eyes to those around us to whom we are to bring compassion and comfort, by the love we ourselves have experienced AS God has loved us, shown his compassion, and brought us comfort.

That we would not only look at the “great cloud of witnesses that have gone before us“, I want to see the cloud of witnesses the minister to us now, that we can be a part, that others may see, be encouraged, and follow.

What the World Needs Now is Love, Sincere Love - Romans 12:9-21

John 15:12-14 12My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. 13Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. 14You are my friends if you do what I command.”

No greater love than laying one’s life down for a friend… what can it mean “to lay one’s life down?

Could it be, that we can lay down our lives for our friends, and not even “die”?  Could it be, that the most difficult way to lay down one’s life for a friend is actually to “die to self”?  And that, on their behalf?  For their good?  And that, out of a love that prefers someone else’s well-being, welfare, ultimate good, over my own?  Maybe even at the expense of my own?  My own life?

This truth lies right at the route of God‘s love for us, and the divine love he has placed in our hearts by his Spirit, and the type of love he can then rightly and justly command us to demonstrate, to express, to others.  And this love…

Love must be sincere - Romans 12:9-21

9Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. 10Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. 11Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. 12Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. 13Share with the Lord’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality.

14Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse. 15Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. 16Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position.  Do not be conceited.

17Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. 18If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. 19Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord. 20On the contrary:

“If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.”   21Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

What is sincere love?  What is love that is unfeigned?

Sincere: not a phony ("put on"), describing sincere behavior free from hidden agendas (selfish motives) – literally, "without hypocrisy" (unfeigned).

This is a distinctly Christian and or biblical word or phrase. It does not exist in secular literature in the Greek.

It is because Paul, in essence, had to make up a word that described genuine and authentic, Spirit-prompted and empowered, Jesus enacted and thus imitated, a divine love, emitting from God and His Spirit, that Jesus lived and commanded (of) His Spirit empowered siblings to be) divinely expressed - agape love 

Love: love which centers in moral preference. Prefer you and your well-being over mine rights and liberties (Rom 14)

It is important that we come to recognize this truth. That God would make up a word that did not exist in humanity before to describe his love to mankind, in particular his children (Rom 5:8; Eph 3:9) and then demand of his Spirit-filled children. (Ephesians 5:1-2)

Romans 5:5 “God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.”

Whose responsibility is it to love: it is mine, it is always mine.  I have no control over someone else’s loving or their responses to my loving them. 

Who am I responsible to love?

this is not a new question: Luke 10:25-29-37

29But he (the expert in the Law) wanted to justify himself, so he asked Jesus, “And who is my neighbor?”

Why? Why would I ask that question?  

Because only I can control what I do.  And God, holds me, only, responsible for my love and loving.  How someone else loves or receives or responds to my love, is none of my business.  And even moreso, does not in any way permit me to then choose whether I love or not. 

So, maybe we need to ask ourselves this question…

Can love be sincere, as the scriptures talk about and define sincere love, if once that love is tested, or even opposed, that that love ceases?

As for the rest of those who are or have been in our lives, it is ours, as long as it is up to us, to live at peace with them, to love them through difficulty and disagreement, even if they choose to not love in return. (Matt 5; Luke 6)

Well, what are the specifics?  Is there a limit?

Another question as old as humanity’s existence.  Well, what did Jesus tell Peter when Peter tried to impress Jesus with his magnanimity (bountiful display of forgiveness)?  “Oh, no, 70X’s7 times”?  What do we think He meant by that? (see the wicked servant)

Matthew 21-35 “21Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?”  22Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.”

What is love then?  If it is “patient, kind, not rude, persevering, etc.” wouldn't it be true that there is not a single one of its virtues that cannot prove themselves unless they are tested?

We must remember that the vast majority of the commands and instructions in the N.T. have to do with how Christians are to conduct themselves with one another - in other words - the epistles are the instructives and correctives in living out our proof of being Jesus’ disciples.  

John 13:34-35

34“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. 35By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”

It is that the New Testament is an entire educational and vocational training on the “loving one another” and having that loving be a sincere act that demonstrates our being transformed and miraculously empowered to transcend our flesh and its desires to love one another as Jesus loved us - when and how Jesus loved us - to make a body, a fellowship, that declares to the world that there is a God among them, that Jesus’ death, life, and resurrection is real, that the power of the Holy Spirit does exist in us

The power of the Holy Spirit in us is not best displayed by random demonstrations of charisma, but by the consistent overcoming of our flesh and its selfish desires, the miraculous power to enable disparate people to be one in spirit, mind, and mission.  


Philippians 2:1-3

“if you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any common sharing in the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, 2then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind”

The miraculous power of the Holy Spirit and His ability to transform lives is His ability to produce love in the hearts and lives of human beings - period.  That is what will attract the lost to Jesus, it is this sincere love that testifies to Jesus’ reality, His ability, nay, His desire to save, to redeem and transform.

Philippians 2:4-7

3Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, 4not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.  5In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus.  6Who, being in very nature a God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; 7rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature b of a servant...: and became obedient to death…”


When?  When love is actually - patient and kind.  And… 

Love is sincere when love has come through all, every, and each of these thresholds, and (this) love actually, and really, perseveres…

1Corinthians 13

1If I speak in the tongues a of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, b but do not have love, I gain nothing.

4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

8Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. 11When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 12For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.

13And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.


So again, we must ask ourselves… 

John 15:12-14
12My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. 13Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. 14You are my friends if you do what I command.”


Macro Versus Micro: Foster Care: James 1; Isaiah 58

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James 1:27-28
  “27Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.”


Let’s confess our anger… even our “righteous indignation”


Now, what do orphans and anger have to do with one another?


Do you ever read a passage of scripture, and then put it in contexts, and wonder “what in the world was God thinking when you put these together?”  and wondered “What do these things have to do with each other?”  Me too. Including this particular passage. 


I have found more than any other letter in the Bible, James seems to put things in place as you would never anticipate or expect. Things that don’t appear to be interrelated but when I take time to read, and reread them, and praying through them and allowing them to examine me, I begin to see how they are so incredibly relevant to one another.


Recalibrating our minds and hearts - to what matters to God.  Yes, the circumstances of the day certainly matter to God, but He is truly sovereign over such things.


What is essential now, is that we see our current situation in light of 2 perspectives

  • Eternal - now, but distant

  • Immediate - now, and close


As opposed to what is big, and far, and seemingly near, that an be taken out of eternal context, and at the same time, keep us from seeing, or distracting us from, what we are actually responsible for - to God and right here, now, around me.


We need to ask ourselves: “Over what do we have dominion over? How we practice our religion?”


So, again, what does anger have to do with orphans AND my responsibility with and for them?

  • Anger keeps me from seeing what God sees and how He sees them

  • Keeps me from seeing my role in God’s work - work that is dear to His heart and therefore ought to be dear to mine (partly because we can’t see Him or it clearly)

  • Anger builds ramparts around my heart that keep from seeing anything beyond - me and my desires, and, those who I feel are attempting to thwart my heart and its desires

Therefore… 

  • I must confess my anger so that I can see beyond me to God and what God cares about


We need to understand that...

Our anger defiles our religion, even Good prompted righteous indignation - that God meant to provoke us to do good - when we make it too much ours, actually diminishes our righteousness.  It makes our religion powerless and ineffective. It perverts it. 


Anger has a way of pitting me against everyone around me. It causes me to think what I think is right, and no one else can be. That it is me against the world, or at least me against you. And even more profoundly, you against me and mine.


So, I can’t hear, then I won’t hear. I can’t listen, I won’t listen.  I speak quickly, forcefully, with little regard for anyone or anything else… including God and what is dear to Him - eternally, and here in the now, right around me. 


James 1:22-27

19My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, 20because human anger does not produce the righteousness (or the righteous life) that God desires. 21Therefore, get rid of all moral filth and the evil that is so prevalent and humbly accept the word planted in you, which can save you.

22Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. 23Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like someone who looks at his face in a mirror 24and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. 25But whoever looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues in it—not forgetting what they have heard, but doing it—they will be blessed in what they do.

26Those who consider themselves religious and yet do not keep a tight rein on their tongues deceive themselves, and their religion is worthless. 27Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.

Religious; religion: devout; fearing or worshiping God; piety - godliness, spiritual 


Without controlling his tongue

  • Control or tight reign 


  • Tongue - a member of the body - which is chiefly engaged in some act 

    • language, speech - a nation as one’s language should reflect the nation of which you are a part - in other words, the Kingdom or nation of God, has its own tongue and language, speech or speaking as evidence of one’s being a part, or a citizen of that kingdom

      • Language, speaking, talk, should be inspired (directed) by God

      • This is the same word used for “tongues” in Acts 2:3-4)

      • Not that the earthly language is necessarily translated from one to another, but that one’s language is evidence of the Spirit’s presence (Gal 5:22-23; Eph 1; Col 3), power, and one’s submission to Him


  • This takes the spiritual fruit and discipline of self-control enabled through understanding and cooperation with the Spirit of God, by His word

    • We enable the power of the Holy Spirit to bear fruit in us when we allow the word to 

    • Transform and make new the attitude of our mind

    • Alert us to God’s will and wisdom

    • Follow through in trust - and obey

    • We are then compelled to - restrain or bridle - our tongue


This leads us to transformation - having the truth truly set us free.  From what?  Being deceived!  In this case, James is warning us that our anger defiles our religion and can work to deceive us into thinking what we think and feel - is right - at the expense of working together, even in a time that is so personally vexing, with people we are personally offended by. 


1:26 “Those who consider themselves religious and yet do not keep a tight rein on their tongues deceive themselves, and their religion is worthless”

  • Deceives himself: to be deceived - to believe or convince oneself of falsehood, an untruth, or a lie, cheat oneself, lead into error - this is Isaiah 58!!!!

    • Decieve using tactics like seduction, giving distorted impressions, lured into deception 

    • Personal desires - one’s religion (one’s faith practice, or personal piety) has either -

      • Not (been effective in having) stripped one of (living for) personal desires, pleasures, through selfishness and self-centerdednss

      • Deceived oneself into thinking or believing that knowledge and “worship” is enough - giving oneself a distorted impression of what faith and religion are

      • Hypicritical showing - 

    • Cheat, deceive, or beguile

      • Cheat oneself of the refreshment of true religion through odedience and ministry  as well as cheating oneself of faith building process of trust and entrust

      • Cheat others of one’s self and the care and service they need and should be able to lean on from a brother or sister or church that one is meant to provide

      • Cheat the church of eidification by/through one’s grace given/distributed gifts (1Cor 12) or resources gathered and readied to minister to the needy in its midst (Deut 14:22,29; 15:9-11; Ps 41:1; Pr 22:9; Ecc 11:1; Acts 2 - where the Jews had a history of generosity and care; 2Cor 9 - to the (afluent) gentile who had to be taught generosity toward others)

      • Cheat the word from its honr, respect, and trust by not obeying it

    • Cheat God’s glory by not living according to His word and will 



  • Worthless: vain, unreal, ineffectual, unproductive; practically: godless - absent of purpose

    • devoid of force, truth, success, result

    • Vanity - for show


27Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.

  • Pure: ethically; free from corrupt desire, from sin and guilt

    • Genuine… 


  • Faultless: not defiled, unsoiled; free from that by which the nature of a thing is deformed and debased, or its force and vigor impaired" - pure, free from adultery


Caring for what God, our Father, cares for...

  • Orphan: bereaved, fatherless, desolate, comfortless; bereft of father or parents, or of a teacher, guide or guardian

    • John 14:18 “I will not leave you orphaned”


  • Widow: lacking of a husband - literally or figuratively

    • Not just having a husband deceased, though this is the classic and most widely used and intended


Why is this important today? Because we have orphans, and we have widows. What is a widow again? As a woman without a husband. Whether that be by choice, by neglect, or by death. We have a nation, populated with women without partners, without helpers, without men.


And so, we have children, without fathers.


Please let me be very clear: I’m not in any way disparaging - looking down upon or judging - a woman with children who does not have a husband for the child’s father with her. This is not a judgment statement. It is an observation. And although many women, and men, without their children’s other parent in their lives, are capable of raising good, sound, godly, responsible children - this is not the ideal.  Infact, this is far from the ideal. 


The fact is, no one person has everything in them to be everything that a child needs, Man or woman. It is difficult enough for a man and a woman, a couple, in a good salad marriage, to raise their children.


And then there is the acute issue of children without any parentage. Or for whatever reason whose parents could not keep them. Or whose parents are struggling, and need assistance.


Yes, this is a HUGE problem, this is a global pandemic in and of itself. 

According to the most recent federal data, there are currently more than 400,000 children in foster care in the United States. They range in age from infants to 21 years old (in some states). The average age of a child in foster care is more than 8 years old, and there are slightly more boys than girls.


Yes, we are called to be part of the solution, we are called to make a difference by this very text


But, if we only see the BIG issues, that big problem, we will never enter into the fray because we will feel as though there’s nothing we can do that will make a difference - because it is too much.


Because of the sheer scale, it is these types of things we need to leave in God’s hands, commit to him, and trust him, and know that His will will be done - lest we become discouraged.


Then, we must ask Him to open our hearts to see...

In the meantime, He calls us to now shift our focus from the macro, to the micro, to what is within our sphere, our concentric circle, our scope.  Those things that we can be a part of, we can make a difference in, we cane, because we are to, take responsibility for.


From Stephanie:

“I thought last week’s sermon about the macro/micro perspectives was significant and ties into the idea of caring for the vulnerable in society. 


The government can meet physical needs, but true life change won’t happen without connection/relationship. 


If we look around us and see a need, we should meet that. If we’re thinking micro, we’d see that we can bring a meal, sit and listen, send a card, watch kids so foster or single mom can catch her breath, teach someone a life skill... 


...those are the kind of things that change people, and ultimately, the world.”


Regardless of what goes on in the macro - beyond us - it in no way should distract us from our responsibilities in our sphere of ministry and mission.  


In fact, if anything, it should compel us to work all the harder in the micro - in our little world, because we know that the macro affects the micro, so that we are alerted to the problem,what happens in the world, the “all” does affect the individual - the every and the each - and the micro DOES effect the macro - as all those numbers, every one of them, is a person - each.


So we all, every one of us, each have a primary responsible to each person who intersects with our sphere of ministry and mission 


Who is responsible for who…?  the Body

In this, we must come to understand and realize, that it is not about us: what we get, our welfare, our good.  That, we must trust, is ultimately, taken care of by God, and, hopefully, the body with which we serve and fellowship - as we each take responsibility for one another.  


...ourselves…

It is our responsibility, as we ensure our own health and standing through sound biblical disciplines, now…


...love others, as we love ourselves….

apply that strength, those resources, all that I have been graced with and blessed by, to the lives of others. 


With little concern, necessarily, that mine needs be met, but, trusting that they will - not demanding, but trusting 


We need to understand that the church’s first responsibility is to care for the body, and that each member is responsible for the body - that all the members of the  body are cared for in a way that promotes health and growth.  Then, from that budding health and growth, the body, as a body, and its members, are able to:

  • Example Christ’s love - and this by loving one another

    • This garners, among other things, credibility - among the body as well as the community

  • Promote the health and strength of those ministering - which better equips us for both ministry and mission 

  • Accomplish the ministry and mission for which God has established and placed the church

  • Exercise well the fruit of the Spirit

  • Garners blessing - give and it will be given to you…


Our responsibility is to be responsible, with an eye to bless:

  • God - living to His glory

  • Family - our first and primary responsibility

  • Church - our second family responsibility

  • My sphere of influence - that place in which I have dominion under God’s sovereign rule

  • My community

  • My country

  • My world


What is it to be responsible, or, take responsibility?

  • Trust and entrust ourselves to God’s sovereign will - knowing Him and who we are to Him

  • Know and obey God’s word

  • Live with an eye to express love as God did and does - being an imitator of God, as a dearly loved child - and, give generously 

  • Live in such a way as to have established margins that I live to God’s glory, by giving generously - whatever generously means in my context

  • That why God established the principles of - so that every one can give (

    • Tithing a percentage 

    • Gleaning 


We do this by living according to God’s values:

  • Responsible to God “looking to one’s own interests”  but...

  • Respectful “...not only one’s own interests”

  • Responsible for others “...but, to the interests of others”

  • Redemptively “...in humility, seeing others as better than self”


In our day, our culture, our community, we, as a people approach some of this by fostering children - kids who are currently in a position of need due to family unhealth or difficult circumstances… so we could ask ourselves, as believers, as a church, the following questions.


Should I, could I, join this mission by being a foster parent?

In this case, it is not to say we all become foster parents, but it is to say that we might all take it into prayer consideration - not every ministry is for everyone, but every ministry is for someone.


Or, if that is not God’s prompting… 


Can I, should I, be a support, an encouragement, to someone who is a foster parent?

It seems that something all, every, and each of us can do, is support those who are in the midst of incredibly important acts of service.  No one person can support everyone, but every person can support someone.


Now, to be sure, not everyone is called to everything.  We each have God given graces for the benefit of the body… (Matthew 25; Romans 12; 1Corinthians 12; 2Corinthians 9)

  • Talents and strengths

  • Gifts and passions

  • Resources and opportunities

  • Sphere of influence

  • Call to ministry and service

  • Call to mission or evangelism


What can we do?  What an I do?

There are a number of ways we might get involved.  Whether that is financial, relational ,or shared responsibility, it might be ours, yours, to have the honor and privilege to support someone who has been called to this all important ministry.


It is important that we do not ignore this admonition - a reminder of what our religion should look like as a reflection of what is dear to our Father’s heart… As children of God, we are reminded of the heart of Father, and that is toncare of those who cannot care for themselves.  


With this reminder, we must be sure to examine God’s word and assess our ministries and service, as well as our missional outreach (to the lost and needy).


One litmus for any church is when one or more members of our body is compelled, prompted, directed, Spirit-inspired to help the body obey an aspect of God’s word, especially one that is fundamental.  When we have someone rise up, we, in response, need to pray and discern:

  • Is there a need within the body?

  • Are we to consider this specific ministry as a body?

  • Are there those who sense a call to this ministry?

  • What can the body do to support those who are called?

  • Do we possess the people and resources for this ministry?


Though not every individual believer may be called to the specific ministry of:, in the case, foster care, it is essential that as a body, as we see the command to understand what God considers “acceptable religion” that He lays out in scripture, and then we subject our ministries to that scrutiny.  In this case:

  • Widows

  • Orphans, specifically

  • Poor 


We know that not every church is going to excel in all things, but when we are challenged by scripture and it has become one of our member’s promptings, it is necessary for us to pray, examine, assess, and adjust.  


In our case, we have among us those who have been called to foster and have offered their lives and homes for that purpose


Ironically, we have, had those who have a prompting to help those ministering in this specific ministry, to bring support, encouragement and aid


At mosaic, we believe that this may be a leading from God to see what this means for us as a body.  


In response, we need to be aware and alert to God’s heart expressed in His word, the prompting of the heart, and the need among us. 

We need to be informed of the issue and if and how we might play a part. 


But it is there with liberty. As though the command is there, there’s no specific instruction as to what it is I need to do. He leaves that up to me and my conscience, the leading of his spirit, the prompting of his word, and then the wisdom and insight to see my circumstances as they are, and how I might have dominion over my sphere, as to not be rained by my flash, but that I would have dominion with God as he reigns over me, and I apply myself to his desires, his will, and his purposes.


This is why Ephesians says we need to be full of the spirit, under its driving influence, and be prepared to take it vantage of every opportunity, Hebrew says do not worry and doing good, Thessalonians, says the same thing. First John and James will speak to the idea if we have the opportunity and the resources to meet need, for us to not do so would be a sin.


Again, there are no specifics there because he leaves that up to us who we are what it is he’s in doubt us with the sphere of influence he’s given us, and then the opportunities and how we are guided through them by his word in the spirit and buy one another.

For many of us, we may never truly have an opportunity to see an orphan, meet in orphan, or take care of an orphan on the other hand, and therefore have our own ministries in missions in which God has placed us to accomplish what he’s designed for us to accomplish and then placed us in the midst of giving us all the resources gifts strengths and opportunity to be prepared to take it vantage of attitude up to out with. But we need to be alert to what his commands


We need to be prepared for every opportunity we need to be willing to at least engage the Holy Spirit and ask him what about me? What would you have of me?